![[theqoo] IF YOUR FRIEND CHEATS ON THEIR PARTNER, WOULD YOU BREAK TIES?](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiT9gu2mv41q_-_Mw5M5jCPL9_O9P97KNAWdvX4PeX6xOcUYIP4757w8IsSTiPnxbzyU61BzKHDHZcuHApfOT7Uc6renkash_u36eK9cbGgZUJj7UWInKZU9xcDD28RRHBdY0KQ5DaaJCjxnfc7LUEOzTPlC2qLKle_kb58ZVSibv9HL4t8kkIqoHSSRx-q=w1200-h630-p-k-no-nu "[theqoo] IF YOUR FRIEND CHEATS ON THEIR PARTNER, WOULD YOU BREAK TIES?")
“I’m curious about your general thoughts on this. For me, I just think it’s their personal life, and since I’m just meeting them as a friend, it doesn’t really matter. But do most people cut off a friend if they act like that?”
– You lack normal morality. For me, I would cut them off. Why would I want someone like that as a friend?
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> 333 Our values and morals are different, so I won’t be able to relate to them. I don’t want to be treated as someone associated with their group
– I’ll eventually distance from them, because our values aren’t aligned
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– I used to think it’s their personal life and since it doesn’t affect me negatively I could let it slide. But then at one point they told me “nowadays, nobody hasn’t done it. Everyone does it” and just with that one sentence, I realized we don’t match and we naturally drifted apart
– I don’t care, that’s her own private life> 22
1. How can you just watch something like this unfold as a bystander?
2. I’ll cut them off ㅇㅇ How can you be friends with someone who can’t even keep their duties as a human?
3. I would also eventually drift apart. I had this friend who used to meet me often and would always mention their cheating. But I would also know his partner, so knowing that, they would turn into a homewrecker for me, so I would find them disgusting. And they’ll probably make all sorts of excuses in order to not get caught cheating, so if I end up slipping, I’ll be treated like an accomplice
4. It’s ultimately a matter of basic morality, so if we were close, I wouldn’t immediately distance myself because of it, but it would definitely feel uncomfortable
5. If we’re close and it’s ongoing, I would cut them off. Otherwise, it would depend on the situation. But if they tell me about it, I think I’d get annoyed
6. No, I still hang out with them, but every time I hang out, I would heart them talk about their cheating problems
7. I’ll eventually distance myself
8. If my values don’t match, I won’t cut them off right away, but I’ll eventually distance myself
9. I don’t care about their private lives
10. No but I don’t think it’s necessary to break ties. Among men, so many of their friends would cheat, but they would never bring up breaking ties. Only women do that