[instiz] SERIOUSLY, IF I HAD A LOVER, I DON’T THINK I’LL BE FANGIRLING

To be honest, the idol I’m into now is in their 30s… I first started liking them 8 years ago? Back then I was crazy about them, so now I’m kind of into them again as a nostalgic idol ㅋㅋ

But I don’t think I’d go to a concert or fan meeting if I had a significant other

I’d be too busy being in love, and honestly, the time I spend with the person I’m with now would feel more precious and meaningful.

The bottom line is, I want to be in a relationship.

Celebrities are people too, but they feel so unrealistic for someone like me, just a commoner, probably wouldn’t even be on their radar. I think it’s best for both sides to just enjoy the fantasy

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1. Me too, the moment I find my significant other, I’ll stop fangirling right away..

2. Me too, if I find someone I like, why would I fangirl? It’s just that I don’t have any commoner I like 

3. I will never be able to stop ㅋㅋㅜ I love my bias sure, but I just find fangirling so fun, and I like going to concerts

4. I have a lover and I’m fangirling just fine ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ I don’t do pseudo relationship, but I feel like I gain strength from sending my support to someone 

5. I enjoy fangirling more than the idea of being with someone ㅠ So I’m fangirling and I can’t bring myself to like someone 

6. That’s why I don’t date anyone, fangirling for me is more important than dating 

7. …. I still do it though 

8. I have a lover now, but I’ve also dumped someone because I joined a fandom 

9. Honestly, it’s obvious that it’ll be harder to fangirl if you have a lover. It’s like something you used to watch 10x and now you have to drop it to 2x 

10. Me too I feel like I’ll eventually stop fangirling if I date