[instiz] THE ONLY REASON PEOPLE TELL YOU TO DATE A LOT IN YOUR 20S

You won’t notice it when you’re dating but once you’ve broken up, that’s when you see everything ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ That’s why you need to break up as many times as possible

1. That’s right, you need to break up to realize things ㅎ

2. What did you realize?

> I realized what needs to be there in a human relationship, and what I would try to turn a blind eye on 

3. That’s right, that’s why I feel bad for kids who date people for 7-8 years… There must be so many people out there who are better suited for you and who are simply better people 

4. I agree I agree I agree I agree

5. That’s right, people who lack discerning eyes should especially try to gain more dating experience, the only way for them is to keep breaking up/getting dumped

Me too, I’ve tried dating many times and now I’m in my late 20s, and I only started to figure out for myself 

There is no one in this world who can match my standards 100% and each person has their own strengths and weaknesses. But there should definitely be things that are unacceptable to you right? That’s what you need to find out, and the moment you do, you can look at people like thatㅋㅋㅋ And your chance of failure in the next relationship will decrease..

6. That’s right, I’ve spent my 20s dating only my 1st relationship ever and we were severely incompatibleㅋ But still we dragged this relationship calling it “love”… But in the end, we broke up and I found someone right away and got married to them 

7. I’m 25 right now and I’ve never dated my entire life.. How can I put this.. I’m more worried over the fact that I have no discerning eyes for finding someone … ㅠㅠ I’m reading all those comments talking about the things they’ve learned through dating and I’m so jealous ..ㅎㅎ

8. That’s right, that’s how you’re able to get into better relationships in the future…… You become less obsessed/nitpicky and also more open-minded

9. As a 27 y’o motae solo, I’m crying 

10. If you get hurt over your first ever break up in your early 20s, the next break up you’ll get, you’ll deal a bit better, and you also gain a discerning eye for people