[instiz] WHAT’S THE POINT OF GETTING MARRIED IF YOU DIDN’T WANT TO HAVE KIDS?

For a man, deciding to get married means he wants to become the head of the family.
The proposal honestly means that he wants to be a father rather than a husband.

That’s why I get cautious until [I’m ready to have kids]

Honestly I don’t understand the logic behind that (except for egg and infertility)
Are you getting married when you have no intention or determination to become a parent?
Why?

1. Do you must give birth if you get married….???

2. Kids shouldn’t be the issue, if you treasure the other person and want to protect them and have feelings, who cares for the rest

3. Having a legal guardian is more important than you think..It’s huge..

4. Because I can get a legal guardian 

5. People have different opinions, why is it a must to have kids ㅋㅋ

6. That’s literally the equivalent of asking “I can’t poop out, why should I eat”

7. If a man’s intention is proposing to become a dad rather than be my husband, I wouldn’t want to marry someone like that in the first place

8. But it’s true that the majority of men do think like how OP portrayed

9. Is it because you don’t want a kid? I’ve seen a lot of people like you actually 

10. Actually, my boyfriend doesn’t want a kid