[theqoo] IF YOUR FRIEND CHEATS ON THEIR PARTNER, WOULD YOU BREAK TIES?

– You lack normal morality. For me, I would cut them off. Why would I want someone like that as a friend?

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> 333 Our values and morals are different, so I won’t be able to relate to them. I don’t want to be treated as someone associated with their group

– I’ll eventually distance from them, because our values aren’t aligned

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– I used to think it’s their personal life and since it doesn’t affect me negatively I could let it slide. But then at one point they told me “nowadays, nobody hasn’t done it. Everyone does it” and just with that one sentence, I realized we don’t match and we naturally drifted apart

– I don’t care, that’s her own private life

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1. How can you just watch something like this unfold as a bystander?

2. I’ll cut them off ㅇㅇ How can you be friends with someone who can’t even keep their duties as a human?

3. I would also eventually drift apart. I had this friend who used to meet me often and would always mention their cheating. But I would also know his partner, so knowing that, they would turn into a homewrecker for me, so I would find them disgusting. And they’ll probably make all sorts of excuses in order to not get caught cheating, so if I end up slipping, I’ll be treated like an accomplice

4. It’s ultimately a matter of basic morality, so if we were close, I wouldn’t immediately distance myself because of it, but it would definitely feel uncomfortable

5. If we’re close and it’s ongoing, I would cut them off. Otherwise, it would depend on the situation. But if they tell me about it, I think I’d get annoyed

6. No, I still hang out with them, but every time I hang out, I would heart them talk about their cheating problems

7. I’ll eventually distance myself

8. If my values don’t match, I won’t cut them off right away, but I’ll eventually distance myself 

9. I don’t care about their private lives

10. No but I don’t think it’s necessary to break ties. Among men, so many of their friends would cheat, but they would never bring up breaking ties. Only women do that