[theqoo] WOW YOU CAN LOSE FRIENDS EVEN AFTER 7 YEARS OF FRIENDSHIP

“Wow you can fall apart even after 7 years of friendship…

We were the 3 of us and I thought that I’d never have to worry about them

Because they were such reliable friends

But we just stopped contacting each other and fell apart

We also just leave each other’s Katalks on read, sigh..

> I stopped contacting my neighborhood friends of over 10 yearsㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎ The small things were piling up and it’s easy to resolve them but it also just took 1 moment for us to fall apart

> It honestly just takes 1 moment for things to fall apart”

“> I also broke off my 5-year friendship in an instant. I didn’t even know. During the entrance exam period, I even ordered rice cakes for them… but I didn’t even get a ‘thank you’… it made me realize that years of friendships meant nothing and felt skeptical so I started to open myself less than before to people who were trying to approach me. Since I’m the one getting hurt in the end… I kinda became indifferent? to human relationships

> Seriouslyㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ I also had a friend for 7 years and… thought we would last for life…ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ You really don’t know people…”

1. I also lost a friend of five years… After graduating from high school and moving to a different area, we occasionally kept in touch. However, I knew that they were someone who regularly ignored messages on Katalk due to their significant other. When I noticed that they were actively engaging in conversations with other friends and sharing messages on Instagram but consistently ignoring my Katalks, so I decided to cut ties. It’s disappointing when you think of someone as a lifelong friend, but sometimes it turns out to be meaningless

2. The amount of time spent together means nothingㅋㅋㅋ… no matter how long a friendship last, it can break at any moment

3. It can’t be helped.. as you get older, you tend to have different values

4. Friends are no different than a lover. It takes effort to maintain a relationship and to become closer.. It just takes one moment to feel neglected and for the relationship to drift apart

5. They don’t necessarily stop out because of something, but because their interests are different and they just drift apart.

6. Even a 20 years friendship just drift apart in an instant

7. I also don’t really contact my friend of 10-years now. Our interests diverged so we slowly had less and less things to say to each other

8. I even drifted apart from my 25 years of friendshipㅋㅋㅋ if you are preoccupied with your own life and stop updating one another, you just naturally fall apart. It can’t be helped

9. This makes me sad

10. I easily maintained this friendship for 20 years but it’s been slowly dying down now