[instiz] THE CHARACTERISTICS OF A NARCISSIST

1. Talks only about themselves: self-interest, loves themselves

2. Zero empathy: ignores things they aren’t interested in
3. Wants to be fun, an inssa (t/n: popular kid in school), and the center of attention
4. Strong need for validation, pride, and insecurity
5. Quick-witted: reads people’s thoughts quickly
6. Shamelessly lies: to the point of being a compulsive liar
7. Strong pride in being male
8. Occasionally has a look in their eyes that confuses people
9. Gaslighting: makes others doubt themselves
10. Shallow relationships but wide network
11. Very active in the beginning but quickly loses interest
12. Likes to cosplay as a victim
13. Violent at home
14. Hard to gauge what kind of person they are
15. Cannot have serious conversations
16. Belittles others
17. Extreme sense of superiority
18. Will cut ties without hesitation once the mask comes off: no mercy
19. Can be very kind and nice

1. That’s straight up my last boss?😂

2. My ex-boyfriend ㅋㅋㅋㅋ Disgusting 

3. Seriously it’s just horrible and disgusting to be around narcissists 

4. Reminds me of that one friend I have 

5. Yup~ My ex-boyfriend 

6. At first, I thought these people didn’t know how to read the room, but it turned out they were actually incredibly quick at picking up on things. They value their own self so much that they can brilliantly figure out where it’s okay to speak bluntly and where it’s not. It’s not that they lack awareness, they’re just calculating everything and then lying down

7. I wouldn’t say they need to be everything on the list, but it reminds me of someone ㅋㅋ Wow I just realized they’re a narcissist 

8. Ah this is giving me PTSD…

9. I really wonder what will happen if 2 narcissists met each other