[instiz] DO YOU GUYS NEVER WORRY WHETHER YOUR S/O IS CHEATING ON YOU?

It’s because I’ve seen the most loveydovey people become a cheater, so I’m sorry to men, but I can’t trust a single one of them…

I wonder if other people don’t have this kind of anxiety at all…? Or maybe they just want to live their lives thinking that it wouldn’t happen to them until they see it with their own eyes? I’m just fascinated. Right now, I can’t even trust my lover. It’s not that he can never do something to me, but that’s why I cannot trust him even more. I’m afraid that if I give him my heart because he’s being nice to me and then I’ll get stabbed in the back and won’t be able to recover.

1. In my entire life, I’ve never had this kind of worry even once..

2. Then you shouldn’t be dating anyone

3. My ex seemed like someone who was crazy over women so I’ve had those thoughts, and he actually ended up “transferring” to another girl whom he met secretly at a bar~ But aside from him, I’ve never really had those thoughts. The other guys always stay at home and don’t really have interest in other women

> (OP) Even in their house, I can’t trust them, you never know how far they can go with just chatting on Katalk… I know I’m weird too, but I can’t trust anyone 

4. Me too I’m totally like you 

5. Me too, I used to completely trust my ex, yet he ended up cheating on me, but right now, I’m dating someone completely opposite, maybe because of the past trauma, I developed trust issues, but he treats me so well that I ended up trusting him and I don’t have a single worry anymore 

6. This is why trust is important 

7. I like to think of this very simply.

If he’s really cheating or is already cheating, it doesn’t matter how you act or how anxious you are. But there is no reason for you to waste your emotions and be afraid… Even though there are a lot of people who cheat, there are a lot more people who don’t. I heard this somewhere, but it’s not about trusting something after hearing everything and doubting it, but it’s important to just trust the person you love. Unless there is some solid physical evidence, because you can stay anxious for nothing 

8. I don’t worry about it, but if I get cheated on, I’m killing him 

9. If all he does is go on IG, have tattoos, is crazy about women and loves clothes, I’d be suspicious 

10. I trust him about 90%